is it hard to be forgiving?
well sometimes, when people take advantage of your being forgiving, then it becomes quite hard. other people dont seem to mind being themslves and keep on being themselves - even if it becomes detrimental to you.
but yes - the golden rule: do unto others what you want done unto you. but when enough is enough, you just cant forgive everything wrong that everybody else does to you - you have to take a stand.
here we must strike a balance between forgiving, and being overly unaffected. maybe we can let some things pass, but when these things come back they shouldnt be let to go like it was the first time. unless you think that there's a chance that it really wont happen again, and then you start forgiving again. its a vicious cylce which can consume the most of the very forgiving.
but then if you can afford to be very forgiving, then i tip my hat to you. why, i should get lessons from you! =)
so now, i think i'll forgive those that have done wrong unto me - in the hopes that if i do wrong unto them, they would forgive me too. hehehe. - i know: bad logic!
but hey, hope it works for me too!
have a nice day! =)
well sometimes, when people take advantage of your being forgiving, then it becomes quite hard. other people dont seem to mind being themslves and keep on being themselves - even if it becomes detrimental to you.
but yes - the golden rule: do unto others what you want done unto you. but when enough is enough, you just cant forgive everything wrong that everybody else does to you - you have to take a stand.
here we must strike a balance between forgiving, and being overly unaffected. maybe we can let some things pass, but when these things come back they shouldnt be let to go like it was the first time. unless you think that there's a chance that it really wont happen again, and then you start forgiving again. its a vicious cylce which can consume the most of the very forgiving.
but then if you can afford to be very forgiving, then i tip my hat to you. why, i should get lessons from you! =)
so now, i think i'll forgive those that have done wrong unto me - in the hopes that if i do wrong unto them, they would forgive me too. hehehe. - i know: bad logic!
but hey, hope it works for me too!
have a nice day! =)
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